Friday, June 29, 2007

Why People Join Gangs


Why
Do Young People Join Gangs?



Young people join gangs for a variety of reasons, some of which are the
same reasons children join other pro-social groups such as 4-H and Boy
Scouts or Girl Scouts.



Some of the reasons for joining a gang may include:



A search for love, structure, and discipline



A sense of belonging and commitment



The need for recognition and power



Companionship, training, excitement, and activities



A sense of self-worth and status



A place of acceptance



The need for physical safety and protection



A family tradition





Risk Factors for Joining a Gang



Racism: When young people encounter both personal and
institutional racism (i.e., systematic denial of privileges), the risks
are increased. When groups of people are denied access to
power, privileges, and resources, they will often form their own
anti-establishment group.



Poverty: A sense of hopelessness can result from being unable
to purchase wanted goods and services. Young people living in
poverty may find it difficult to meet basic physical and psychological
needs which can lead to a lack of self-worth and pride. One
way to earn cash is to join a gang involved in the drug trade.



Lack of a support network: Gang members often come from homes
where they feel alienated or neglected. They may turn to gangs when
their needs for love are not being met at home. Risks
increase when the community fails to provide sufficient youth programs
or alternatives to violence.



Media influences: Television, movies, radio, and music all
have profound effects on youth development. Before youth have
established their own value systems and are able to make moral
judgments, the media promotes drugs, sex, and violence as an acceptable
lifestyle.





Protective Factors



Well-developed social and interpersonal skills



High sense of self-esteem, self-efficacy, and personal responsibility



Reflectivity, rather than impulsive thought and behavior



Internal locus of control (i.e., the belief of being able to influence
environment in a positive manner)



Flexible coping strategies, well-developed problem-solving skills and
intellectual abilities







Gang Prevention



Youth gang involvement is not a new phenomenon in the United
States. Gangs have been known to exist in our country since
the 18th-century. Philadelphia was trying to devise a way to
deal with roaming youth disrupting the city in 1791.
According to the National School Safety Center, officials in New York
City acknowledged having gang problems as early as 1825. The
gang problem is not likely to go away soon or to be eliminated easily.







Here are a few gang-prevention strategies:



The family and the community are essential to the development of the
child's social, emotional, and physical needs. If the family
is the source of love, guidance, and protection that youths seek, they
are not forced to search for these basic needs from a gang.
The family and community share responsibility for teaching children the
risk of drugs.



Strong education and training are directly related to a youth's
positive development. Young people who successfully
participate in and complete education have greater opportunities to
develop into reasonable adults.



Graffiti removal reduces the chance that crimes will be
committed. Since gangs use graffiti to mark their turf,
advertise themselves, and claim credit for a crime, quick removal is
essential.



Conflict resolution programs teach gangs how to deal better with
conflicts and help eliminate gang intimidation tactics.



Recreational programs such as sports, music, drama, and community
activities help build a sense of self-worth and self-respect in young
people. Youth involved in such activities are less likely to
seek membership in a gang.



From Research Review: Gang Violence and Prevention by Mary H. Lees,
M.A., Human Development Department; Mary Deen, M.A., Extension Youth
Development Specialist; and Louise Parker, Ph.D., Extension Family
Economics Specialist; Washington State University.

Wednesday, June 27, 2007

Funny Stuff

Always forgive your enemies - Nothing annoys them so much.

If Barbie is so popular, why do you have to buy her friends?

When everything's coming your way, you're in the wrong lane.

I used to have an open mind but my brains kept falling out.

I couldn't repair your brakes, so I made your horn louder.

For Sale: Parachute. Only used once, never opened, small stain.

Do you have trouble making up your mind? Well, yes or no?

If everything seems to be going well, you have obviously overlooked something.

Many people quit looking for work when they find a job.

When I'm not in my right mind, my left mind gets pretty crowded.

Everyone has a photographic memory. Some just don't have film.

You know the speed of light, so what's the speed of dark?

Join The Army, Visit exotic places, meet strange people, then kill them.

I poured Spot remover on my dog. Now he's gone.

Evening news is where they begin with 'Good evening', and then proceed to tell you why it isn't.

Before borrowing money from a friend, decide which you need more.(Friend or Money !)

Death is hereditary.

There are three sides to any argument: your side, my side and the right side.

An consultant is someone who takes a subject you understand and makes it sound confusing.

Never argue with a fool.
People might not know the difference.

When you're right, no one remembers.When you're wrong, no one forget.

Cheer up, the worst is yet to come.

Always remember that you are absolutely unique. Just like everyone else.

Everyone makes mistakes. The trick is to make mistakes when nobody is looking.

They say hard work never hurts anybody, but why take the chance.

Always borrow money from a pessimist. He won't expect it back.

I like work. It fascinates me. I sit and look at it for hours.

If you can't see the bright side of life, polish the dull side.

Where there's a will, there are five hundred relatives.

Everybody wants to go to heaven, but nobody wants to die.

Tuesday, June 26, 2007

Death of an Innocent

I went to a party Mom, I remembered what you said.

You told me not to drink, Mom, so I drank soda instead.

I really felt proud inside, Mom, the way you said I would.

I didn't drink and drive, Mom, even though the others said I should.

I know I did the right thing, Mom, I know you were always right.

Now the party is finally ending, Mom, as everyone is driving out of sight As I got into my car, Mom, I knew I'd get home in one piece.

Because of the way you raised me, so responsible and sweet.

I started to drive away, Mom, but as I pulled out into the road the other car didn't see me, Mom, and hit me like a load.

As I lay there on the pavement, Mom, I hear the policeman say,the other guy is drunk, Mom, and now I'm the one who will pay.

I'm lying here dying, Mom. I wish you'd get here soon.

How could this happen to me, Mom? My life just burst like a balloon.

There is blood all around me, Mom, and most of it is mine.I hear the medic say, Mom, I'll die in a short time.I just wanted to tell you, Mom, I swear I didn't drink.

It was the others, Mom.

The others didn't think.

He was probably at the same party as I.

The only difference is he drank and I will die.

Why do people drink, Mom? It can ruin your whole life.

I'm feeling sharp pains now.

Pains just like a knife.

The guy who hit me is walking, Mom, and I don't think it's fair.

I'm lying here dying and all he can do is stare.

Tell my brother not to cry, Mom. Tell Daddy to be brave.

And when I go to heaven, Mom, put "Daddy's Girl" on my grave.

Someone should have told him, Mom, not to drink and drive.

If only they had told him, Mom, I would still be alive.

My breath is getting shorter, Mom. I'm becoming very scared.

Please don't cry for me, Mom.

When I needed you, you were always there.

I have one last question, Mom, before I say good bye.

I didn't drink and drive, so why am I the one to die?

One Man's Story



Dear Diary:

For my fortieth birthday this year, my wife (the dear) purchased a
week of personal training at the local health club for me. Although I
am still in great shape since playing on my college football team
20yrs ago, I decided it would be a good idea to go ahead and give it a
try. I called the club and made my reservation with a personal
trainer named Belinda, who identified herself as a 26 yr. old aerobics
instructor and model for athletic clothing and swimwear.

My wife seemed pleased with my enthusiasm to get started! The Club
encouraged me to keep a diary to chart my progress.

MONDAY:

Started my day at 6:00am.

Tough to get out of bed, but it was well worth it when I arrived at
the health club to find Belinda waiting for me. She was something of
a Greek goddess -- with blonde hair, dancing eyes and a dazzling white
smile.

Woo Hoo!!!!!

She took my pulse after 5 minutes on the treadmill. She was alarmed
that my pulse was so fast, but I attributed it to standing next to her
in her Lycra aerobics outfit. I enjoyed watching the skilful way in
which she conducted her aerobics class after my workout today.

very inspiring, Belinda was encouraging as I did my sit-ups, although
my gut was already aching from holding it in the whole time she was
around.


This is going to be a FANTASTIC week!!


TUESDAY:

I drank a whole pot of coffee, but I finally made it out the door.
Belinda made me lie on my back and push a heavy iron bar into the air,
and then she put weights on it! My legs were a little wobbly on the
treadmill, but I made the full mile. Belinda's rewarding smile made
it all worthwhile.

I feel GREAT!! It's a whole new life for me.

WEDNESDAY:

The only way I can brush my teeth is by lying on the toothbrush on The
counter and moving my mouth back and forth over it. I believe I have
a hernia in both pectorals. Driving was OK as long as I didn't try to
steer or stop. I parked on top of a GEO in the club parking lot.
Belinda was impatient with me, insisting that my screams bothered the
other club members.

Her voice is a little too perky for early in the morning and when she
scolds, she gets this nasally whines that is VERY annoying.

My chest hurts when I got on the treadmill, so Belinda put me on the
stair monster. Why the hell would anyone invent a machine to simulate
an activity rendered obsolete by elevators? Belinda told me it would
help Me get in shape and enjoy life. She said some other shit too.

THURSDAY:

Belinda was waiting for me with her vampire-like teeth exposed as her
thin, cruel lips were pulled back in a full snarl. I couldn't help
being a half an hour late; it took me that long to tie my shoes.
Belinda took me to workout with dumbbells. When she was not looking,
I ran and hid in the men's room. She sent Lars to find me, then, as
punishment, put me on the rowing machine -- which I sank.

FRIDAY:

I hate that bitch Belinda more than any human being has ever hated any
other human being in the history of the world. Stupid, skinny, anemic
little cheerleading bitch. If there were a part of my body I could
move without unbearable pain, I would beat her with it. Belinda
wanted me to work on my triceps. I don't have any triceps! And if you
don't want dents in the floor, don't hand me the*&%#(#&** barbells or
anything that weighs more than a sandwich.

The treadmill flung me off and I landed on a health and nutrition
teacher. Why couldn't it have been someone softer, like the drama
coach or the choir director?

SATURDAY:

Belinda left a message on my answering machine in her grating, shrilly
voice wondering why I did not show up today. Just hearing her made
me want to smash the machine with my planner. However, I lacked the
strength to even use the TV remote and ended up catching eleven
straight hours of the Weather Channel.

SUNDAY:

I'm having the Church van pick me up for services today so I can Go
and thank GOD that this week is over. I will also pray that next
year, My wife (the other bitch), will choose a gift for me that is fun
--like a root canal or a vasectomy.

WHY do people do this ?? lol

Why do we press harder on a remote control when we know the batteries are getting weak?


Why do banks charge a fee on "insufficient funds" when they know there is not enough?


Why does someone believe you when you say there are four billion stars, but check when you say the paint is wet?


Why doesn't glue stick to the bottle?


Why do they use sterilized needles for death by lethal injection?


Why doesn't Tarzan have a beard?


Why does Superman stop bullets with his chest, but ducks when you throw a revolver at him?



Why do Kamikaze pilots wear helmets?


Whose idea was it to put an "S" in the word "lisp"?



If people evolved from apes, why are there still apes?



Why is it that no matter what color bubble bath you use the bubbles are always white?



Is there ever a day that mattresses are not on sale?



Why do people constantly return to the refrigerator with hopes that something new to eat will have materialized?


Why do people keep running over a string a dozen times with their vacuum cleaner, then reach down, pick it up, examine it, then put it down to give the vacuum one more chance?


Why is it that no plastic bag will open from the end on your first try?


How do those dead bugs get into those enclosed light fixtures?


When we are in the supermarket and someone rams our ankle with a shopping cart then apologizes for doing so, why do we say, "It's all right?" Well, it isn't all right, so why don't we say, "That hurt, you stupid idiot?"


Why is it that whenever you attempt to catch something that's falling off the table you always manage to knock something else over


In winter why do we try to keep the house as warm as it was in summer when we complained about the heat?


How come you never hear father-in-law jokes?

Gandhi and Buddha Quotes


***Mohandas Karamachand Gandhi,***

( one of the most influential figures in modern social and political activism,considered these traits to be the most spiritually perilous to humanity.
Wealth without Work Pleasure without Conscience Science without Humanity Knowledge without Character Politics without Principle Commerce without Morality Worship without Sacrifice )

Peace will not come out of a clash of arms but out of justice lived and done by unarmed nations in the face of odds.
Democracy and violence can ill go together.Evolution of democracy is not possible if we are not prepared to hear the other side.

A coward is incapable of exhibiting love; it is the prerogative of the brave.

Hatred ever kills, love never dies; such is the vast difference between the two.

What is obtained by love is retained for all time. What is obtained by hatred proves a burden in reality for it increases hatred.

Non-cooperation with evil is a sacred duty.

Nonviolence is the greatest force at the disposal of mankind. It is mightier than the mightiest weapon of destruction devised by the ingenuity of man

The weak can never forgive.Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong.

What kind of victory is it when someone is left defeated?

***You must be the change you wish to see in the world.***

may be long before the law of love will be recognizedin international affairs.

The machinery's of governmentstand between and hide the hearts of one people from those of another.

To forgive is not to forget. The merit lies in loving in spite of the vivid knowledge that the one that must be loved is not a friend.

You assist an evil system most effectively by obeying its orders and decrees. An evil system never deserves such allegiance.Allegiance to it means partaking of the evil.A good person will resist an evil system with his or her whole soul.

Nonviolence is not a garment to be put on and off at will. Its seat is in the heart, and it must be an inseparable part of our being.
Violent means will give violent freedom.

However much I may sympathize with and admire worthy motives, I am anuncompromising opponent of violent methods even to serve the noblest ofcauses.

Man and his deed are two distinct things. Whereas a good deed should callforth approbation, and a wicked deed disapprobation, the doer of the deed,whether good or wicked always deserves respect or pity as the case may be.
Hate the sin and not the sinner is a precept which though easy enough tounderstand is rarely practiced, and that is why the poison of hatred spreads in the world.

Nonviolence and cowardice are contradictory terms. Nonviolence is thegreatest virtue, cowardice the greatest vice. Nonviolence springs fromlove, cowardice from hate. Nonviolence always suffers, cowardice wouldalways inflict suffering. Perfect nonviolence is the highest bravery.Nonviolent conduct is never demoralizing, cowardice always is.
Destruction is not the law of humans. Man lives freely only by his readiness to die, if need be, at the hands of his brother, never by killing him. Every murder or other injury, no matter for what cause, committed or inflicted onanother is a crime against humanity.

Man's nature is not essentially evil. Brute nature has been known to yieldto the influence of love. You must never despair of human nature.

It is the law of love that rules mankind. Had violence, i.e. hate, ruled uswe should have become extinct long ago. And yet, the tragedy of it is thatthe so-called civilized men and nations conduct themselves as if the basisof society was violence.

Power is of two kinds. One is obtained by the fear of punishment and theother by acts of love. Power based on love is a thousand times moreeffective and permanent then the one derived from fear of punishment.

Whether humanity will consciously follow the law of love, I do not know.But that need not disturb me. The law will work just as the law of gravitation works, whether we accept it or not. The person who discovered the law of love was a far greater scientist than any of our modern scientists. Only our explorations have not gone far enough and so it is not possible for everyone to see all its workings.

It is good to see ourselves as others see us. Try as we may, we are neverable to know ourselves fully as we are, especially the evil side of us. This we can do only if we are not angry with our critics but will take in goodheart whatever they might have to say.


Gandhi was once asked what he thought about western civilization. Hisresponse was: "I think it would be a good idea."









****BUDDHA****
Buddha (563 - 483 BC)

Let us live in joy, never falling sick like those who hate us. Let us live in freedom, without hatred even amongthose who hate.

"Your mind is everything, What you think you become."-Buddha
He who causes suffering shall suffer. There is no escape.

It is our minds that create this world.

"If anything is worth doing, do it with all your heart."

Love yourself and be awake-Today, tomorrow, always.

First establish yourself in the way,Then teach others, And so defeat sorrow.

To straighten the crookedYou must first do a harder thing-Straighten yourself.

You are your only master.Who else?Subdue yourself,And discover your master.


We are what we think. All that we are arises with our thoughts. With our thoughts we make the world.


The gift of truth excels all other gifts.


Do not overrate what you have received, nor envy others. He who envies others does not obtain peace of mind.


May all that have life be delivered from suffering.


Monday, June 25, 2007

Sunsets and Sunrises





Now who doesnt like sunsets? Sunsets and sunrises
are so beautiful and magical. Enjoy the pics..










and for the finale....





Sunday, June 24, 2007

Test Dont Cheat


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Saturday, June 23, 2007

Big Girls Dont Cry and Never Again







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*****Fergie**** "Big Girls DOnt CRy" lyrics



Da Da Da Da

The smell of your skin lingers on me now

Your probably on your flight back to your home town

I need some shelter of my own protection baby

To be with myself and center, clarity

Peace, Serenity



[CHORUS]

I hope you know, I hope you know

That this has nothing to do with you

It's personal, Myself and I

We've got some straightenin' out to do

And I'm gonna miss you like a child misses their blanket

But Ive got to get a move on with my life

Its time to be a big girl now

And big girls don't cry

Don't cry

Don't cry

Don't cry



The path that I'm walking

I must go alone

I must take the baby steps until I'm full grown

Fairytales don't always have a happy ending, do they

And I foresee the dark ahead if I stay



[CHORUS]

I hope you know, I hope you know

That this has nothing to do with you

It's personal, Myself and I

We've got some straightenin' out to do

And I'm gonna miss you like a child misses their blanket

But I've got to get a move on with my life

Its time to be a big girl now

And big girls don't cry



Like the little school mate in the school yard

We'll play jacks and uno cards

Ill be your best friend and you'll be mine

Valentine

Yes you can hold my hand if u want to

Cause I want to hold yours too

Well be playmates and lovers and share our secret worlds

But its time for me to go home

Its getting late, dark outside

I need to be with myself and center, clarity

Peace, Serenity



[CHORUS]

I hope you know, I hope you know

That this has nothing to do with you

It's personal, Myself and I

We've got some straightenin' out to do

And I'm gonna miss you like a child misses their blanket

But I've got to get a move on with my life

Its time to be a big girl now

And big girls don't cry

Don't cry

Don't cry

Don't cry



La Da Da Da Da Da






You Are A Green Girl
You feel most at home in a world of ideas.

You're curious and logical - and enjoy a good intellectual challenge.

You're super cool, calm, and collected. Very little tries your patience.

Your only fear? People not realizing how smart and able you are!
You Are 83% Real
There's hardly a person on this earth more real than you are.

You have no problem showing people who you are, flaws and all.

For you, there couldn't be any other way. Because it's way too stressful to live an inauthentic life.

You're very comfortable with yourself. And because of this, you're able to live an exciting, interesting, and challenging life.




“Lord, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to hide the bodies of those people I had to kill because they pissed me off!”



lol Have a great day!!!







****KELLY Clarkson****







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***"Never Again"*** By: Kelly Clarkson

lyrics:







I hope the ring you gave to her

Turns her finger green

I hope when you’re in bed with her

you think of me

I would never wish bad things

But I don’t wish you well

Could you tell

By the flames that burned your words

I never read your letter

Cause I knew what you’d say

Give me that Sunday school answer

Try make it all okay



Does it hurt

To know I'll never be there

bet it sucks

to see my face everywhere

It was you

Who chose to end it like you did

I was the last to know

you knew

exactly what you would do

Don’t say

You simply lost your way







She may believe you

But I never will

Never again





If she really knows the truth

She deserves you

A trophy wife Oh, how cute

Ignorance is bliss

But when your day comes

And he’s through with you

And he’ll be through with you

You’ll die together, but alone

You wrote me in a letter

You couldn’t say it right to my face

Well, give me that Sunday school answer

Repent yourself away

Does it hurt

To know I'll never be there

bet it sucks to see my face everywhere

It was you

Who chose to end it like you did

I was the last to know

you knew

exactly what you were doing

Don't say

You simply lost your way



They may believe you

But I never will

Never again





Never again will I hear you

Never again will I miss you

Never again will I fall to you

Never

Never again will I kiss you

Never again will I want to

Never again will I love you

Never!





Does it hurt

To know I'll never be there

Bet it sucks

To see my face everywhere

It was you

Who chose to end it like you did

I was the last to know

you knew

exactly what you were doing

Don’t say

You simply lost your way

They may believe you

But I never will

I Never Will

I never will

Never again


Big Girls Dont Cry

What Famous Leader Are you ?